Now Is The Time

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How much do you hold on to your painful past? You must realize that holding on gives more damage than letting go. The pain you think that you might be inflicting on that other person is damaging you even more. We may not be angels and saints, some may say, but being able to sleep comfortably at night and waking up filled with positive thoughts, enthusiasm and inspiration will bring you to greater heights of happiness, fulfillment and success.

What do you think this new year has enstored for you? Whether you are a believer/follower of what the zodiac horoscope tells us, we have our own thoughts on how to do things, on how to make them happen and how to lead a good and comfortable life - free of pain and anger.

Think of it this way......not all people can see the same picture. Some may interpret a certain image in a positive or in a negative way. When we see things in a positive perspective, we denounce fear. We claim success and courage. We may not always persuade the people to see what we see or understand our thoughts. The key? RESPECT. Everyone is entitled to his own opinion. All we need to do is to listen and understand. In the event that you could not agree with what the other person says, learn to just keep your silence. There is no use in arguing with people who refuses to listen.

Save yourself from getting hurt. Think and understand. Laugh when it hurts and let go of the pain. It's not easy. But it's worth a try.

Comments

  1. cmcJanuary 4, 2016 at 9:18 PM

    It takes considerable discipline and will power to do what is right. And it is about time people make a little more effort.

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  2. JentleheartJanuary 5, 2016 at 5:04 AM

    Its just so sad how some choose to give up with their relationships because of holding grudges and too much pride.

    ReplyDelete

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