Jentleheart

What was the first thing that crossed your mind when you read the title? I am sure most of you thought that it is about a relationship between a man and a woman involved in a serious relationship. But then again, it is safe to say that a man and a woman can remain as just friends. Any objections so far? There might be a few who would not agree that when a man and a woman gets close to each other, plain friendship is impossible. Thus, some would think that their relationship is just like the movie, "Friends with Benefits'. But not all the time that this can be true because there are people of opposite sex who just have this sisterly/brotherly love. Ina different scenario, those men and women who started out as great friends may turn into lovers and may have a better marriage because of a good foundation of their friendship. Some eyebrows raising? Still, this depends on the kind of people they are and the kind of situation they are in. When you meet so...

How much do you hold on to your painful past? You must realize that holding on gives more damage than letting go. The pain you think that you might be inflicting on that other person is damaging you even more. We may not be angels and saints, some may say, but being able to sleep comfortably at night and waking up filled with positive thoughts, enthusiasm and inspiration will bring you to greater heights of happiness, fulfillment and success. What do you think this new year has enstored for you? Whether you are a believer/follower of what the zodiac horoscope tells us, we have our own thoughts on how to do things, on how to make them happen and how to lead a good and comfortable life - free of pain and anger. Think of it this way......not all people can see the same picture. Some may interpret a certain image in a positive or in a negative way. When we see things in a positive perspective, we denounce fear. We claim success and courage. We may not always persuade the people to s...

It's another year of starting anew. But what often happens is that we tend to leave our list/goals for the new year on that piece of paper and forget about it. When you look back at the past year, what do you feel? Do you feel that you have accomplished anything? Do you feel that you lacked the necessary time to be able to make a difference? Wouldn't you want to continue an unfinished project? You don't need to compete with everyone else. You don't have to be an object of envy of others. Value yourself more than what money could buy. Believe that you can do something. Believe that you are capable of making change. Aspire to always become a better version of yourself. When you set your goals, make sure that it is something that will affect you and the people around you in a positive way. Never be disheartened when people start to criticize. Instead, listen and understand. There might be certain points where you fall short and need to make just a little adjustments ...